No Shoulds

Daily writing prompt
What does freedom mean to you?

Freedom is an interesting concept. It leads me to the challenge of finding personal fulfillment each day. Most of my life I have lived with many shoulds that control my decision making. I should mind my manners. I should keep family business private. I should get straight A’s. I should get an advanced degree. I should regard art only as a hobby. I should be practical in my work life. I should be bold. I should socialize. I should work for others first. I should get all my work done before I relax. I should put myself last, etc. etc. These notions may have some positive components, but they have led me to deferred goals and unfulfilled dreams. I spent many years taking every personality and career test/course I could find. I read a ton of career books. Most of the activity was an attempt to appease the shoulds. When I realized I was avoiding the decision to follow what I already knew down deep, I started on a path to personal freedom. Freedom is the release of the edicts and listening to my inner nature. Freedom is being who I was created to be.



One response to “No Shoulds”

  1. I love this! I also have been listening to the “shoulds.” Time to follow my passion instead of doing what I think I should do.

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Indie author and self taught artist, creating for over fifty years, also a former corporate lawyer and systems manager … and other assorted vocations. Writing is my passion. I just released my first science fiction novel, Escape From Desolation, eBook and paperback. More information at my author page: http://escapefromdesolation.com

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